Strip clubs....

Joined : 03 Jan 2007 Posts : 1617 Localisation : Illadelph

Strip clubs. Would you mind if your significant other went to see strippers? Are there exceptions...conditions?

* I personally don't have a problem with it. I think its just something that men are going to do. BUT the wierd thing is that if he "cheats" by going out with someone else...I would be more upset. scratch

I realize this is a twisted psychology, trying to understand myself on this one...might be that weird cusp throwing me off...

Joined : 07 Jan 2007 Posts : 596 Localisation : over philly

I don't think this is twisted at all. I think it's just practical. You either trust who you with or you don't. Whether or not they go to the strip club or have friends of the opposite sex, or take trips with their friends to somewhere like, say, Brazil... it's all the same, either you gonna trust them or you ain't. And if you trust them, there shouldn't be any worries about whether or not they are going to watch some strippers or whatever...

Joined : 20 May 2008 Posts : 69

FOR ME A MY WOMAN GOING TO A STRIP CLUB I NEVER BEEN THAT GUY TO DICTATE TO MY LADY WHAT TOO DO. BUT ONCE UPON A TIME I GOT INTO VERY HEATED FIGHT WITH MY CHILDREN MOTHER OVER THIS I GUESS BECAUSE I NEVER BEEN TO ONE SO I BE DAMN IF YOU GO. NEVER WENT MYSELF UNTIL I WAS ABOUT 27 YEARS OLD AND IT GOT PLAYED FOR ME REAL QUICK FEELING AROUSE AND GUILTY AT THE SAME TIME. FOR ME IT'S BEEN THERE DONE THAT CAN GO A THE REST OF MY LIFETIME WITHOUT IT. BUT FOR HER IF WAS SOMETHING LIKE A GILFRIEND BRIDAL SHOWER I GUESS BUT JUST A NIGHT OUT WITH GIRLS AND SOME STRIPPERS......HELL NO; OH YEAH I DID SAY I DON'T DICTATE DIDN'T I.

Joined : 03 Jan 2007 Posts : 640

i don't see anything wrong with it...he can go all he wants as long as the money that he's spending there isn't interfering with things needed for the house.

some men do take it to the extreme and develop attachments with the strippers, but that's a sign of a deeper issue...
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Joined : 23 Jan 2007 Posts : 181

Me and my

discussed this topic lonnnnnnnnnnngggggggg ago. When we were just dating. It's not our thing. If we had met when we were teens this would've been a different story. But now? Nah. He had his experience w/it when he was younger and mother has lived. So now it doesn't mean much and it's not very entertaining. I'd rather private dance at the crib wit' him. Nuff said.

Joined : 08 Jan 2007 Posts : 406

jus don't spend the house money on them baws! there is nothing gained by forbidding someone from patronizing the shakey butt clubs.
and after watching Cheaters enough you realize that people do dirt with or without a stripper.

as far as whisper's comment I agree. ..

Joined : 23 Jan 2007 Posts : 181