I might be the problem. It really might be me ya'll. I recently had to fade away from this dude because he was showing signs that seemed like a potential abuser.

"Why did you ignore my call"

"How much was that"

"How come you didn't respond to my text messages"


Maybe I'm being extra...but I do NOT like explaining myself for simple things. I used to be the type of person who asked these same questions, but I realize that shit is unhealthy and screams insecurity. And hypocritically, I feel uncomfortable when a man does it to me. I feel like what's next, Ike and Tina in the bathroom? Especially if he called for the first time that day, and I didn't answer but called you later on...on to hear "Why did you ignore my call?"

Why are you assuming that I ignored your call? I cannot (and did not) explain myself. That takes way too much energy.

I think I'm pulling out of the dating game for good. God is going to have to send him (Pleeeease ) I'm not looking anymore. At least that is how I feel today (and yesterday).

I know it seems extra...but I have to take certain precautions. Men are stronger than woman physically...and if a brother is coming off like this, way too early (don't even have a reason to be acting like that...no intimacy)..that spooks me.



your thoughts?

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